Frequently Asked Questions

To easily reference the most "Frequently Asked Questions," please choose a topic from the list below:

WHY RUSSIAN WOMEN?
  1) I have no trouble attracting women. Why look for one in russia?
  2) What's so cool about finding a russian woman?
  
TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE?
  1) These women are hot! What gives?
  2) I'm no stud. What would these girls want with me?
  
ABOUT US
  1) What is Hot Russian Brides?
  2) Are you guys for real?
  3) Have any of your members experienced success?
  
HOTRUSSIANBRIDES.COM: MYTH & REALITY
  1) Why are international online dating services priced differently from domestic dating sites?
  2) How do your costs compare to other similar dating services?
  3) There are so many sites out there, why should I use yours?
  4) I've read a lot of Black List sites and some of the information makes me concerned.
  5) Are the women paid to use the site?
  6) How do you validate the ladies and what do you do in order to safeguard your clients' interests?
  7) Some of the letters don't sound very sincere, why is that?
  
GETTING STARTED
  1) How does it work?
  2) I signed up. What should I do next?
  3) I performed an advanced search on your site and got very few results. Why?
  4) Can I cancel my membership at anytime?
  5) What are the requirements for posting a profile?
  6) Do I need a personal email address to sign up?
  7) Is it safe to post my profile on your website?
  8) Will my personal information be shared with any 3rd parties?
  9) Where can I find the terms & conditions of your service?
  
ABOUT RUSSIAN WOMEN
  1) Why are Russian women interested in Western men?
  2) Are Russian women cultured?
  3) Do Russian women only date men their own age?
  4) I've heard Russian women do not make a lot of money. Is this true?
  5) Do Russian women still practice traditional family values?
  6) What are the steps to corresponding with a Russian woman?
  
LADIES ON THIS SITE
  1) Are the ladies real?
  2) You don't sell contact information. How do I know the ladies are real?
  3) Their pictures look too good to be true. Are they all models?
  4) Where do the ladies' profiles on HotRussianBrides.com come from?
  5) I've seen one of your ladies listed as a scammer on another website. Why?
  6) Do the ladies pay to use this service?
  7) Are all ladies on the web site currently available?
  
SERVICES
  1) What kind of services do you offer?
  
MEMBERSHIP LEVELS
  1) What does each membership level have to offer?
  2) How do I cancel my membership?
  
ASSOCIATED COSTS
  1) How much do your services cost?
  2) What forms of payment are accepted?
  3) What name will appear on my Credit Card statement?
  4) Does Hot Russian Brides assure secure credit transactions?
  
CORRESPONDENCE
  1) What is the most efficient way to use your service?
  2) Can the ladies see me if I have a web cam?
  3) Do I get unlimited emailing with the platinum membership?
  4) What's the difference between an introduction email, and a follow-up email?
  5) How many ladies should I write to ensure a response?
  6) Why does it take some of the ladies longer than others to reply to my emails?
  7) Can I include my personal contact information in outgoing email or chat messages?
  8) Are email attachments allowed?
  9) I attached a picture to an email and it is "under review." Why?
  10) Are emails translated for the intended receiver?
  11) Will I be notified when I have new incoming mail?
  12) Does Hot Russian Brides assure the privacy of messages during the translation process?
  13) I typed a long email and when I tried to send it, I was logged out. Why?
  14) I attempted to send an email and it contained "invalid characters." Why?
  15) I sent an email to a lady and she says she has not received it. Why?
  16) Some of my emails have disappeared. Why?
  17) How do I block a Lady?
  
MY ACCOUNT
  1) I never received the confirmation email upon signing up. Why?
  2) I forgot my username/password. Help!
  3) You emailed me my password but it still doesn't work. Why?
  4) Your login page says my username doesn't exist. Why?
  5) Your login page says I am "blocked" from the website. Why?
  6) How do I change my username or password?
  7) How do I edit my profile?
  8) How do I delete my profile?
  9) How do I add photos to my profile?
  10) What are "favorites," "matches," and "admirers?"
  11) How do I send an email?
  12) How do I attach a picture to an email?
  13) How do I send an instant message?
  14) How do I watch a video stream?
  15) How do I send a gift?
  16) I have a question not listed here. Can it be answered through email?
  
MEETING THE LADIES
  1) Can I exchange personal contact information with the ladies?
  2) What do I have to do to become a qualified member?
  3) Why must I be qualified before I can meet a lady?
  4) I'm qualified, what do I do next?
  5) I'm qualified, how can I meet a lady I've been corresponding with?
  6) I'm traveling in a few days. Can you help me meet some ladies?
  

 

Why Russian Women?

I'M GOOD LOOKING AND I HAVE NO TROUBLE ATTRACTING WOMEN. WHY LOOK FOR ONE IN RUSSIA?

Think a Russian woman is no different from any other? Think again! Russian women possess a certain indescribable quality you just can't find around the block. This unique attribute can be likened to a softness of character so personified, you'd swear it's all an act. Gentlemen, this is no act!

A Russian woman is what every man wants a true woman to be. She's tender and not afraid to reveal her weaknesses. She realizes that she needs her partner's support, and for her, that's OK! She's not looking to compete with you, but rather to love you and be loved by you, nothing more. Isn't that everything a relationship is supposed to be?

If you're not convinced, sign up for our FREE 3-DAY TRIAL and send up to 10 introduction letters absolutely free. You only need to exchange a few emails with these beautiful ladies to begin to see the difference. Don't believe us? See for yourself!

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WHAT'S SO COOL ABOUT FINDING A RUSSIAN WOMAN?

You mean besides having a beautiful woman to share your time with? Well, how about a woman who is not only beautiful, but intelligent and sophisticated at the same time, someone who expresses a deep passion for life and for love. Beginning to get the big picture?

Look, we all love beautiful ladies. That's a given. But with age comes wisdom, and as we mature, we realize, there's more to a woman than a beautiful face. If there's no substance to a person, no personality, no feeling, no passion, what's the point?

You may think Russian women are the most beautiful women you've ever laid eyes upon. Guess what? That's not the only thing they have going for them. They're scholars and intellectuals, theatergoers and art lovers, dreamers and inventors. They have substance!!!

With a Russian woman, you can discuss world topics or literature, or appreciate a painting or a sculpture. You get the whole package, beauty and brains. What's more, you'll soon realize that she has more personality and zest for life than any of the women you've dated previously. A beautiful woman who trumps all those before her? Now that's cool!

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Too Good To Be True?

These women are hot! What gives?

We've made it a point to select some of the most stunning single women Russia has to offer. When you couple that with the fact that European women, especially those from Russia, take great pride in their appearance, it should come as no surprise that the ladies who participate in our program wish to make the very best possible impression with their photos. That's why many of them choose to invest the time and money to have their photos taken by a professional. So, while these women are indeed "hot," that doesn't mean they are any less available. Hard to believe? Read on!

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I'm no stud. What would these girls want with me?

You tell us! A mistake that most men make when pursuing a beautiful woman is thinking they just aren't good enough for her or couldn't possibly compete with all the other men who must be knocking down her door. WRONG! You know as well as we do that EVERY man (including YOU!) has something special to offer a woman. Sometimes you just need the courage to show her.

Many men assume that all women are overly concerned with a man's appearance and how much money he makes? Sure, some are, but we know from experience that most Russian women aren't. In general, Russian women do not place undue importance on their partner's appearance or how deep his pockets are. They love their men for who they are on the inside and what they can bring to the relationship, not what they look like on the outside or how much money is in their bank accounts.

So what do you have to offer one of our ladies? Not quite sure? Well, are you prepared to be completely honest in your relationship, providing your full support whenever it may be needed? If so, you've already got what it takes to make one Russian woman very happy. All you have to do is write her! That's where we come in...

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About Us

WHAT IS Hot Russian Brides?

We are an online service dedicated to facilitating genuine correspondence between women and men.

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Are you guys for real?

ABSOLUTELY AND POSITIVELY, YES!

I-Pay Global, Inc. (IPG) is proud to introduce Hot Russian Brides. We at IPG are dedicated to making your online correspondence experience enjoyable and efficient. Our image is one of excellent service, honesty, and reliability. You can expect these values to shine through at HotRussianBrides.com. Our primary goal is to provide a welcoming atmosphere in which our members can feel completely at ease.

We offer an online experience that is supported by a network of highly trained personnel. With superior resources and steadfast integrity, we are proud to provide a quality of service unparalleled in the industry today.

Our Mission
IPG is dedicated to facilitating genuine correspondence between Russian women and Western men. We pride ourselves on nurturing an atmosphere in which our members can experience the exhilaration and joy of finding true friendship.

IPG strives to provide quality service to ALL of our members. We abide by the highest ethical standards and conduct ourselves in an honest, professional, and socially responsible manner. We believe that respect for our customers is the cornerstone of a productive and mutually fulfilling relationship.

We aim to seek out the finest Russian women, and excel at providing them with a variety of venues for corresponding with Western men of like mind and ambition. We maintain a "competitive edge" in our industry by continuing to introduce unique services and we remain devoted to satisfying our most important resource, YOU!

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Have any of your members experienced success?

Yes! Click here to view some of our member's most recent success stories.

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HotRussianBrides.com: Myth & Reality

Why are international online dating services price differently from domestic sites?

There are several things one should know and understand about communicating with women abroad via international online dating services that cause the pricing structure to differ from using traditional domestic dating sites.

While it may be hard for some westerners to imagine, waking up and checking your email from the comfort of your own home is still a luxury rarely seen in the majority of countries our ladies live in. When you consider Russia alone covers 11 time zones it's easy to understand why widespread and affordable internet access is still decades away from what we have become accustomed to in the Western world. Even in larger cities like Moscow, personal computers and in home internet access are not common place and are not affordable for the majority of single women living in the city.

Many women do not have daily access to check their messages and most women have to travel to internet cafes or agencies to get online. When one takes this into account, along with the understanding that the average income for ladies using our services only amounts to between $300- $400 a month USD, it is easy to see why we feel we cannot charge ladies to use our services the way domestic dating sites do. Also while we do not pay women to use our services, we do work with many agencies and company contacts overseas to do everything in our power to help improve bandwidth conditions, computer access and availability at expense to us.

More women choose us because we understand the sacrifices made by these ladies willing to extend their search for true love abroad and we work hard to offer women superior communication tools, like our personal chat and live video features, that assist them in making the most of their time online. We try to absorb as much of this cost as possible, but because of these factors and until the technology catches up in the east quality international dating services will always be priced differently than flat monthly fee domestic dating sites. You will find however, while you may pay more to use an international dating service, the quality of women you will encounter as well as the level of service provided is unmatched when compared to services offering only domestic dating.

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How do your costs compare to other similar dating services?

When compared to the services and fees associated with other sites you'll see that ours is one of the most affordable and easy-to-use. Many online dating services charge you to not only read and write an email, but then require you to pay additional fees for the translation of those messages. When you sign-up with one of our Silver, Gold, or Platinum memberships you can read an unlimited amount of e-mail messages for free without ever having to pay extra for translation services.

Our site has also incorporated two of the most innovative communication services to date-real time chat and live video. No other site on the Internet supplies these services at this quality for the low cost we offer. With our services you are getting the highest quality communication tools at the lowest price available. On other sites you may be charged up to ten times more for the video chat than you are charged here. By the way, there are never any minimums on our site to enter a private chat or live video, ever. Unlike what you find with other services, instead of paying a 10 or 15 minute minimum upfront before entering chat with a lady, with our service only the time you spend in chat or live video with the lady of your choice is the time you pay for.

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There are so many sites out there, why shoud I use yours?

Hot Russian Brides is simply the best site available, offering both high-speed chat and video chat to help you communicate with women from across the globe! What better system could you use in order to ensure that the lady you are corresponding with is indeed real? By using our Live Video Chat, you can set up chat appointments and talk as much as you want.

What other site allows you to open an unlimited amount of e-mails utilizing a Silver, Gold, or Platinum Membership? In addition, each level of membership offers free monthly allotted emails, plus discounts for chat, video, introduction videos and our on-site gift store.

If you need assistance with the site or have a problem, our knowledgeable online Web Hostesses are available 7 days a week for immediate help.

You should also know that your security is always one of our chief concerns. Through our Validation Program we take great caution to verify each woman's identity by making cold-calls to the agency whenever they are online and requiring photo identification before they can even create a profile. Also, before a lady is allowed to join, she is interviewed by the local agency to verify her information and that she is indeed searching for a serious relationship. This way you are guaranteed that the woman is genuine and earnest about the process.

Finally, the ladies are NOT allowed to ask for money on our site. If this occurs, her profile will be removed and she will be banned from using our service.

Infrastructure, with bandwidth that is limited by the lack of services. The internet in Russia is much different than in America. Instead of paying a monthly fee for unlimited access, we are paying for service per minute. Plus, we are providing computers and web cams, as well as a full-time staff of translators and secretaries.

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I've read a lot of black list sites and some of the information makes me concerned.

Blacklist sites represent a more complicated aspect of the internet-based dating industry.

There have been numerous cases where the dating sites themselves have created blacklist sites with no other agenda than to slander their competition. In other cases, men have exaggerated or even totally falsified reports because of a negative experience with a woman. Also, some people do not research overseas marriage before deciding it is something they would like to do. This includes reading ALL of a site's terms and conditions, plus educating oneself about the legal issues involved with marrying someone from overseas. Some of the complaints on these sites have to do with things that are clearly spelled out in our user agreement and/or IMBRA (International Marriage Broker Act of 2005). This is one of the dilemmas of the industry: how does one tell what information is actually useful and what is not?

Here are a few other questions to ask yourself when reading a blacklist site:

What is the site's affiliation with other services? Do they have any direct connections to another business or are they an independent source of information?

How do they judge what service is honorable and what service is a scam? Do their recommended sites fit their own criteria?

Look at the language of the site. Does the diction of the reports sound credible or more like someone who is holding a grudge?

Do they give examples of actual scamming or is it just a case of a broken heart gone awry?

Remember, just like a brick and mortar establishment, Internet-based businesses are subject to bad publicity from disprovable and often times highly speculative sources. This is even more prevalent nowadays with internet access becoming more widely available and the sense of anonymity provided by online forums and message boards.

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Are the women paid to use the site?

We specifically prohibit payments to women corresponding with men through this website. Any person or entity shown to violate this prohibition is removed from the website. They come to the agencies out of their own determination, setting aside time out of their day to communicate with the men they prefer.

Not only is it grossly unethical to pay someone to pretend to be interested in someone else, it would also be a poor business practice for a site aiming to facilitate correspondence between two people who are genuinely interested in each other. We want our members to find love and recommend us to others looking for love as well. Engaging in such a practice as compensating the ladies for using our site would severely compromise our mission and our vision.

It also goes without saying that we do not allow any type of monetary exchanges to take place on our site. Though some men feel that the best way to show their affection to a woman is through presents, we only permit such exchanges to take place through our own personalized gift shop.

This way if there is a dispute or discrepancy it can be handled quickly and effectively through our customer service department.

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How do you validate the ladies and what do you do in order to safeguard your clients' interests?

As an added layer of protection to our clients, we now require the agencies we work with to record and submit video validation of the ladies. In this video, each lady must read and sign an agreement which states they are using the service of their own free will, they acknowledge that they are not being paid to use the service, agree not to ask for gifts or money, agree to our Terms of Use, etc. In order for a lady to maintain a profile on our website, she must participate in this validation program.

We introduced this revolutionary validation technique in response to the doubts and concerns voiced by our clients. This does not replace our current validation process; a lady must still provide photo identification and complete the interviewing process to verify her information before she can create a profile. Our new video validation procedure is just one more layer of protection for our clients and is exclusive to our service.

While there is no way for us to 100% guarantee anyone's safety when corresponding and meeting others over the internet, we are committed to doing everything we can to help protect our clients from fraud and deception. We feel that this program is a necessary and effective step in helping us achieve that goal.

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Some of the letters don't sound very sincere, why is that?

More than likely what you are reading is an Introduction Letter sent by the lady. It's important to remember that the ladies, just like the men, have the ability to send a first-time e-mail (Introduction) to a man she has yet to meet. When you first meet someone, what is it that you talk about? Normally the topics of conversation are your likes, dislikes, personal history, and motivations for wanting to meet someone new. This is exactly what these e-mails were designed by our members to accomplish.

The ladies' capability with the English language may also be a factor as well. While some can speak English eloquently, they may have trouble writing it or comprehending certain words or phrases. Most, if not all, require translators to assist them with their letter writing, which may account for the jumbled and not very fluent tone of the messages.

The process of communicating with these women requires patience and understanding. There are only so many ways that a person can describe themselves without sounding repetitive or trite. One must also consider how the women may view your e-mails, too. When you consider how many e-mails she may receive over time it is only logical to assume that she's heard just about everything there is to say. Yet despite this, they continue to write and look for that special someone. All that we ask is that while using our site you do the same.

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Getting Started

HOW DOES IT WORK?

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I signed up. What should I do next?

Search for your match! Just visit our advanced search page and input all of the criteria you are looking for in a woman. When you find some ladies that spark your interest, you can let them know for free by adding each one to your Favorites folder. When you're ready to correspond with a lady, simply upgrade your membership or purchase a credit package to get started.

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I performed an advanced search on your site and I got very few results. Why?

Check your search criteria. Chances are, you accidentally made a selection that you didn't mean to. For instance, if you are searching for all women that participate in our service who are aged 25 to 35 and who weigh between 120 and 150 lbs, your search results would differ dramatically if you accidentally selected "Atheist" from the Religion category, or "Green" from the Eye Color category.

If you are sure your search criteria is accurate yet you still do not receive an adequate amount of results, you should consider expanding your search criteria to include a broader range of ladies.

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Can I cancel my membership at anytime?

Yes, and there's absolutely no hassle involved! If you wish to cancel your membership, just click "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "Cancel Membership" located in the navigation menu on the right-hand side of the screen.

Upon canceling your membership, you will retain your membership benefits until the end of your current billing period, after which, your credit card will not be charged again.

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What are the requirements for posting a profile?

Your profile should be. . .

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Do I need a personal email address to sign up?

Yes. To become a member, a personal email account is required. While you are assigned a personal mailbox (accessible 24/7) through HotRussianBrides.com, we require members to maintain an active personal email address in order to alert them regarding periodic web site maintenance and important account information. Your email address will NEVER be distributed to any third party.

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Is it safe to post my profile on your website?

Absolutely! Your privacy is our number one priority. Our male clients' profiles are NOT available to the general public. Only verified ladies who currently participate in our program and those introduction Independent Company/agency Representatives with which we work have access to our members' profiles. The website from which the ladies access our services is password protected, and new ladies are not granted access to the website (or your profile) until we have verified their identity as well as their willingness to participate in our program.

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WILL MY PERSONAL INFORMATION BE SHARED WITH ANY 3RD PARTIES?

No! Your contact information is used for billing purposes only. This information is extremely confidential, and we treat it as such.

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Where can I find the TERMS & CONDITIONS of your service?

Please refer to the following link:

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About Russian Women

Why are Russian women interested in Western men?

Well, because Russian women . . .

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Are Russian women cultured?

Yes! Russian women are generally very well educated and intelligent. Literature, art, and theater take on considerable importance in their lives. In Moscow alone, there reside over 140 music and drama theaters, 78 museums, and 142 art exhibition centers.

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Do Russian women only date men their own age?

In our experience, no. While women from Western developed countries usually search for men within their immediate age range, Russian women often seek older, more established and mature partners. As such, it is not uncommon to see Russian ladies date partners 5 - 15 years their senior. However, as is the case in any successful relationship, you must share common points of interests with your partner no matter what her age.

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I've heard Russian women do not make a lot of money. Is this true?

Yes. Most of the ladies who participate in our program make on average just 5,500 rubles per month. That converts to less than $200 US dollars per month!

You will find that some Russian women simply cannot relate to the economic system we utilize in the U.S. As a result, certain financial services that Westerners are all too familiar with (mortgages, car loans, credit cards) may be somewhat foreign to many Russian women.

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Do Russian women still practice traditional family values?

How would you describe a woman who practices traditional values? A stay-at-home mom who cooks, cleans, and cares for the children? While it's wrong to assume that all Russian women are content taking on the role mentioned above, many have preserved these traditional values. Having been raised in homes that encourage strong family ties, where qualities such as generosity and sincerity are impressed at a young age, Russian women will stop at nothing to help their family members during times of need. This makes for a women who is unwavering in the level of support she is willing to provide for her family.

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What are the steps to corresponding with a Russian woman?

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Ladies On This Site

ARE THE LADIES REAL?

ABSOLUTELY AND POSITIVELY, YES!

At IPG we take EVERY conceivable precautionary measure to ensure that the information (and photographs) displayed in each lady's profile truly represents the facts. Other sites may rely on 3rd parties to "validate" ladies, BUT NOT US! When WE display the "Validated" logo on a lady's profile, you can rest assured that we have an electronic scanned copy of her passport (photo ID) in our possession! Furthermore, we place a phone call to each lady to ensure that she is a willing (and motivated) participant in our program.

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You don't sell contact information. How do I know the ladies are real?

Think about this for a minute. Try and imagine a cute Russian girl by the name of Elena. She's 26, has long blond hair, and a body to die for. Her profile is listed on Agency X's website, and her telephone number and email address are available for the bargain price of just $15. You purchase Elena's contact info and send her an email. A few weeks pass and Elena hasn't responded, so you decide to send her another email. Another week passes and still no reply. While you really wanted to exchange emails with Elena before calling her, you're left with no other choice but to try her number. You call, and a woman answers, but as soon as you open your mouth, she hangs up. You try again and get the same result. Looks like you're going to have to start all over.

If you think the scenario described above doesn't happen very often, you're right! Most of the time you purchase a telephone number or email address, neither one is valid, meaning you won't even get far enough to say hello to a Russian lady over the telephone. How can that be? The agencies are collecting money for this contact information - it should be real! The unfortunate truth is that agencies realize the average man who participates in this process has the misconception that if he can get the contact information for a particular lady, that means the lady must be real. In reality, it means very little. Regardless, men are willing to pay for that false sense of security, and the agencies are more than willing to provide it to them, regardless of whether or not the contact info they are selling is genuine.

Of course, not all contact information that's sold is fake. So, how can you tell the difference between what's real and what's not? Unfortunately, most times you can't. This is especially true if the contact information you purchase is actually connected to a real person. Lets say you purchase an email address and receive responses to your emails, or you purchase a telephone number and start having regular phone conversations with a lady. That's great! But just because you're talking to a lady with a cute Russian accent three times a week, doesn't mean she's the woman you think she is. How do you know she's the same lady as the one in the profile pictures? Until you actually meet her in person, you usually don't.

What about the ladies on our website? How do you know they're real? LIVE VIDEO! How many other services can you login to, no matter what time of the day, and find ladies streaming live video, ladies you can validate with your very own eyes to see that the girls you are emailing and chatting with are the same girls in the profile pictures? There's only one service that offers that kind of peace of mind, and it's HotRussianBrides.com.

While we validate each and every lady prior to her participation in our service, we don't think you should simply have to take our word for it. With live video streaming, you can validate any lady you wish, while chatting with her in real time and watching her expressions as she reads your messages. This is the real deal!

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Their pictures look too good to be true. Are they all models?

While a select few of the ladies who participate in our program do model in their free time, the vast majority of them have never stepped foot on a runway or graced the pages of a magazine. In fact, most of our ladies have average, everyday jobs.

So, why do they all look so beautiful? First, we've made it a point to select some of the most stunning single women Russia has to offer. When you couple that with the fact that European women, especially those from Russia, take great pride in their appearance, it should come as no surprise that the ladies who participate in our program wish to make the very best possible impression with their pictures. That's why many of them invest the time and money required to have their photos taken professionally.

Note: Please bear in mind that some ladies can't afford professional photographs, so when you perform an advanced search, you will find both ladies with professionally taken photographs, and those with more natural or candid photos.

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Where do the ladies' profiles on HotRussianBrides.com come from?

We receive profiles through a network of Independent Company/agency Representatives located in major regions throughout Russia, Ukraine, Moldova, and Belarus. Meticulously researched and hand picked for their high level of professionalism, moral standards, and customer service, these Independent Representatives assist our members with their correspondence needs and provide computers and internet connections from which the ladies that participate in our program may access our services.

Upon registration with an Independent Representative, ladies are required to provide valid personal identification (passport, etc.) to safeguard against impersonators.

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I've seen one of your ladies listed as a scammer on another website. Why is she still on yours?

The problem we face with websites that list scammers, also known as "blacklists," is that not all of the ladies listed are always the perpetrators of a scam. However, those men who may be less informed regarding online services such as ours often automatically assume that every lady listed on a blacklist is a scammer.

You must keep in mind that just as scammers use pictures of supermodels and pop stars, they also steal pictures of real women whose real profiles are listed with legitimate websites. Just because you see a particular lady's picture on a blacklist, doesn't mean she is the person behind the scam. Did you know that many scams are actually initiated by men posing as women?

In some instances a lady may have filled out a profile at a website and simply forgot about it, that is until she saw her name and picture listed on the Internet as a scammer and realized that someone was using her profile without her knowledge to ask men for money.

In another scenario that happens all too often, a man may simply be trying to lash out at a lady who felt they were not compatible. In retaliation, the man then plasters her profile and a fake scam story on every blacklist he can find.

You see, many of these cases are not as cut and dry as they initially appear. Granted, many men are victims of scams in this industry, but they are not alone, as innocent women become pulled into the fray as well. If you see one of our ladies listed on a blacklist, please contact us and we will gladly investigate the matter.

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Do the ladies pay to use this service?

No. Unlike other domestic online services, we do not charge our female members. They are able to use our services absolutely free. Why is this so? Please bear in mind that the average Russian woman who participates in our program makes less than $200 per month. Obviously, she cannot afford to pay for our service on top of all her other financial responsibilities while earning such a meager wage. Thus, we offer our services to Russian women free of charge.

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ARE ALL LADIES ON THE WEB SITE CURRENTLY AVAILABLE?

Yes! Please note that our ladies are asked to inform the Independent Company/agency Representative with whom they registered if they wish to be removed from the service. While we strive to maintain a database that is up-to-date, some ladies may neglect to inform the Independent Representative regarding changes in their availability status. When we discover any such profiles, they are promptly removed from our website.

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Services

What kind of services do you offer?

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Membership Levels

What does each membership level have to offer?

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How do I cancel my membership?

If you wish to cancel your membership, just click "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "Cancel Membership" located in the navigation menu on the right-hand side of the screen.

Upon canceling your membership, you will retain your membership benefits until the end of your current billing period, after which, your credit card will not be charged again.

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Associated Costs

HOW MUCH DO YOUR SERVICES COST?

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WHAT FORMS OF PAYMENT ARE ACCEPTED?

We accept Visa and MasterCard credit cards. At this time, we do not accept American Express, Discover, checks, money orders, or wire transfers for our online services.

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What name will appear on my Credit Card statement?

When you make a purchase through our site, the charge will show up on your statement under the name "I Pay Global", our International billing affiliate and /or Romantic Tours, Inc.

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DOES Hot Russian Brides ASSURE SECURE CREDIT TRANSACTIONS?

Absolutely! As a service to our customers, we utilize the leader in secure transaction technology, VeriSign®, for all Internet transactions. To protect consumer data during transmission, VeriSign® uses the latest SSL encryption technology. Once the transmission process is complete, VeriSign® stores sensitive transaction information on secure systems that cannot be accessed through the Internet. It also employs hardware and software firewall technology and additional encryption technology to eliminate all opportunity for intruders to break into a server and compromise information.

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Correspondence

What is the most efficient way to use your service?

Most of our members use the email service for initial introductions only, and when they find a few women whom they are interested in, they'll schedule times with the ladies to use our instant messaging service. From that point forward, they will usually only send emails to the ladies when the ladies are not available online to chat.

Our members tend to prefer instant messaging over sending emails because it provides for immediate results. You type your message, and the lady sees it a few seconds later. Plus, if she's streaming video, you can watch her expression as she reads what you sent. This form of communication proves to be much more gratifying and interactive than emailing. It is also very efficient, considering that you are chatting with someone in real time and do not have to wait hours or days to receive a reply.

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Can the ladies see me if I have a web cam?

No. Our web streaming service is currently one-way only, meaning you can view the ladies but they can't view you. Why? Two reasons: bandwidth, and the high cost of Internet service in Russia.

In Russia, you can't pay $50 a month and enjoy unlimited broadband Internet access. The Independent Company/agency Representatives with which we work pay for their Internet service in the same manner in which you pay your utility bill. It's based upon usage. The more you use, the higher the bill.

Many of the Independent Representatives utilize dialup connections that simply cannot support the amount of bandwidth required for two-way video streaming. For those Independent Representatives that do have a broadband connection, they are currently paying hundreds of dollars per month for Internet access. Were we to offer two-way video streaming, not only would those Independent Representatives with dialup connections not be able to carry the service, but those with broadband connections would likely not be able to afford the additional bandwidth required to facilitate two-way video streaming.

Currently, we will only be able to offer one-way video streaming. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause.

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Do I get unlimited emailing with the Platinum Membership?

Platinum Members receive 50 free introduction emails and 30 free follow-up emails each month. To learn the difference between an introduction email and a follow-up email, click here. The reason that we cannot offer an unlimited email plan to our members is that the Independent Company/agency Representatives with which we work must pay their translators for the services they provide.

Were we to offer an unlimited email plan in which members pay a set fee and in turn are able to send an unlimited number of emails to the ladies each month, the amount of emails sent would be much greater than the amount of revenue collected. Thus, the amount of revenue that would be needed to pay the translators in order to translate all of the emails would not be met. As a result, the Independent Representatives would not be able to pay their translators for the amount of work required, and the majority of your emails would not be translated.

We have tested an unlimited email program in the past and found it to be inefficient. As an alternative, we now offer several membership levels that enable members to send a limited, yet generous amount of free emails each month. For more information, click here.

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What's the difference between an introduction email, and a follow-up email?

You may have noticed that different membership levels allow you to send a certain number of free follow-up emails and/or introduction emails each month. For instance, Platinum Members are able to send 50 introduction emails AND 30 follow-up emails each month at no extra charge.

An introduction email differs from a follow-up email in that it is intended to be what the name implies and nothing more, a simple "introduction" or first contact. For accounting purposes, our system recognizes the very first email you send to a lady as an "introduction" email. All emails sent to that same lady after the first initial email are then considered "follow-up" emails. When you want to send an introduction email to a lady, you can do so using either the follow-up email icon (yellow envelope) or the introduction icon (red/yellow "i") located within her profile card on the left-hand side of your screen.

Regardless of which email icon you select within a lady's profile card (introduction or follow-up), if you have not sent her an email in the past, our system will recognize the email you are currently attempting to send as an introduction email and either deduct one free introduction email from your allotted limit if a Silver, Gold, or Platinum Member, or charge you accordingly if you have exceeded your free introduction email limit, or if you have a membership in which you do not receive free introduction emails (Bronze). This automated function ensures that regardless of which membership you are using, you will always use your free introduction emails first. Only after you exhaust your free email limit for a given month will you need to purchase credits to send additional emails.

If you have previously created an introduction email, when you attempt to send an email to a lady with whom you have never corresponded, your introduction email will be automatically displayed in the email window and you will be given the option to send it as it appears, or edit it before sending. If you have yet to create your introduction email, you can save one at any time by checking the "Save As Intro" box located within the email window before clicking the "Send" button.

By allowing you to save a standard introduction letter to our database, we have eliminated the need to cut and paste it every time you wish to send it. After saving your introduction letter, you will be able to send it to any woman you choose by simply selecting the "i" icon located within her profile card or the follow-up email icon (yellow envelope), and clicking "Send." You don't even have to add a salutation, as we automatically add a personalized salutation, including the lady's username, to the beginning of each introduction email you send.

Note: You can only send one introduction email to each lady. Upon doing so, the "i" icon located within her profile card will become inactive and change to a gray color. If you click on the email icon in a lady's profile card for whom you have already sent an introduction email, our system will recognize the email you are currently attempting to send as a follow-up email and either deduct one free follow-up email from your allotted limit if a Platinum Member, or charge you accordingly if you have exceeded your free follow-up email limit as a Platinum Member, or if you have a membership in which you do not receive free follow-up emails (Bronze, Silver, or Gold).

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HOW MANY LADIES SHOULD I WRITE TO ENSURE A RESPONSE?

On average, sending an introduction letter to 20 or more ladies will ensure you receive a sufficient amount of responses to gauge your initial compatibility with several women. When writing to just one or two women, your chance at achieving meaningful correspondence is reduced considerably.

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Why does it take some of the ladies longer than others to reply to my emails?

Please keep in mind that most of these ladies do NOT have the luxury of receiving your emails and replying to them from the privacy of their own home. The vast majority of them do not own a computer or a car. Those who do have a computer, often times can't afford the high cost of Internet access in Russia.

So, how do the ladies get your emails? Independent Company/agency Representatives located within the former Soviet Union. We work with over 150 Independent Representatives throughout Russia and Ukraine. In order to access our website, a lady must visit the office of a local Independent Representative. When you send an email to a lady, it is sent to her inbox on our website and a copy is forwarded to the office of her Independent Representative. The Independent Representative will contact the lady to let her know she has a letter waiting for her.

The lady can choose to travel to the office of the Independent Representative by foot, a rather uncomfortable proposition during the harsh Russian winter months, or by public transportation. If she's too busy to visit the office, which is often the case, the Independent Representative will read your letter to her over the phone, interpreting it when necessary. The lady will then compose her reply, and either take it to the office of the Independent Representative when she has the time to do so, or call the Independent Representative back, and read her reply. The Independent Representative will in turn type the lady's reply and send it back to you.

As you can see, when these ladies want to send an email, they can't just walk into their living room, flip a switch on the computer, and jump on the Internet. While it may take some ladies a week or more to send a reply to your email, others may live very close to the office of their Independent Representative and be able to send you a reply on a daily basis. The time it takes a particular lady to reply to your email all depends upon her individual circumstances.

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CAN I INCLUDE MY PERSONAL CONTACT INFORMATION IN OUTGOING EMAIL or Chat MESSAGES?

In compliance with the "International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005" (IMBRA), members are prohibited from freely exchanging their personal contact information through our services.

However, we have implemented various protocols that will enable you to exchange personal contact information and/or arrange an in-person meeting with a lady through the assistance of an Independent Company/agency Representative. Please click here for further details.

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ARE EMAIL ATTACHMENTS ALLOWED?

Yes! When composing an email, you can check the "Add Attachment" box to attach a picture to an outgoing email. After clicking the send button, you will be prompted to browse for the file you intend to attach.

Note: You must have at least one picture posted in your profile if you wish to use the attachment function. The add attachment option will not appear until after your profile picture has been approved and formatted.

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I attached a picture to an email. After sending the email, I checked the attachment to see if it went through and it said "Attachment Under Review." Why?

All attachments are reviewed to insure they do not contain content that violates the terms & conditions under which our service operates. After an attachment is reviewed and released, you will be able to view it within your sent email folder.

During regular business hours, attachments are usually held for review for no longer than one hour. If the attachment is sent during non-business hours (5:00 pm - 8:00 am EST, Monday through Friday, or all day Saturday and Sunday), it will be reviewed and released at the start of the next business day.

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ARE EMAILS TRANSLATED FOR THE INTENDED RECEIVER?

Yes! However, the word "translation" can be somewhat misleading. When we mention translation, please keep in mind that we're not referring to a process in which a translator simply changes English words into their Russian equivalents. Many English words do not even have Russian equivalents! The translation process we implement is much more involved than that.

We utilize the help of skilled interpreters. Not only do they translate your message into Russian, they interpret the actual meanings of your sentences and translate them into a form that will be easily read and understood by the intended recipient. In essence, our translators ensure that the integrity of your message remains intact. This includes preserving the intended inflection, tone, and overall quality of your original message. That's something that cannot be accomplished by a mere literal translation in which words are converted into their foreign counterparts and left as is.

So, how do the ladies actually receive your translated emails and respond to them? Ninety-five percent (95%) of the ladies who participate in our program do NOT own a personal computer, and of the few who do, most cannot afford the high cost of Internet service in Russia. As a result, in order to read and respond to their emails, the vast majority of ladies who participate in our service must visit the office of one of the local Independent Company/agency Representatives with whom we have a working relationship.

However, as is often times the case, most ladies can't afford to visit the office of the Independent Representative on a regular basis. These women do not own cars, and if they want to get to the office, they either have to walk, or pay for a taxi, bus, or subway ride. Walking long distances is simply not an option during Russia's harsh winter months, so the ladies are left with no other option but to pay for public transportation. In instances where a lady has difficulty getting to the office to retrieve her email, she will instead receive and respond to her email with the help of a translator via the telephone.

Upon receiving your email, the translator will call the lady in question and verbally convey your message to her in Russian. She will then listen to and record the lady's reply. Finally, the translator will translate and interpret the lady's reply into English before sending it back to you.

As you can see, the translation process practiced by those Independent Representatives with which we work requires a considerable amount of resources, including time, money, and a number of highly skilled translators.

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WILL I BE NOTIFIED WHEN I HAVE NEW INCOMING MAIL?

Yes! You will receive a notification message at your personal email address when new messages appear in your Hot Russian Brides mailbox. You can customize this convenience to get a notification once a day, once a week, for every new email you receive, or not at all. To tailor this service, you need only click on "Web Site Preferences" located in the right-hand column of your Account page. Additionally, if you are logged in, whenever your mailbox receives a message, the words "New Email" will appear on your Home page.

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DOES Hot Russian Brides ASSURE THE PRIVACY OF MESSAGES DURING THE TRANSLATION PROCESS?

Absolutely. Our translators abide by the most professional of standards, handling your messages with the utmost discretion.

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I typed a long email and when I tried to send it, I was logged out. Why?

For security purposes, our website will automatically log you out of your current session if you remain on one page for more than thirty minutes. To circumvent this from happening in the future, simply type your message in Microsoft Word or a similar word processor prior to sending. When you are ready to send it, login and cut/paste the message into the email window.

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I attempted to send an email and I received an error message that read, "There appears to be invalid characters in your email." Why?

This error most likely occurred when you attempted to cut/paste your email from a word processor program such as Microsoft Word. Our email system will reject formatting that word processors attach to certain unique characters.

An example of a unique character is an accent mark. Accent marks can appear above or below letters. For example, a variation of the word cafe contains an accent mark above the letter "e" as seen here - café. If your email contains accent marks, please remove and replace the letters to which those accent marks are attached, leaving off the accent marks when you replace the letters in question. Then, attempt to resend your letter.

If you still receive the error message, or if you are unable to locate any accent marks in your email, feel free to send the email (in its original format) to info@hotrussianbrides.com. We will gladly locate and remove any such characters for you.

Note: In order for us to properly locate and remove invalid characters from within your email, you MUST send it as an attachment in the original format in which it was created. For example, if you created the email in Microsoft Word, please save the email as a Word document and attach a copy of the file to an email addressed to info@hotrussianbrides.com.

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I sent an email to a lady and then chatted with her online. She says the email is not in her inbox. Why?

The reason the email in question was not delivered to the lady's mailbox immediately after you sent it, is most likely because our email filter flagged it to be held for review. We utilize a filtering program that automatically scans emails for rule infractions, i.e. when a member attempts to send his or her telephone number, email address, etc.

Please keep in mind that in order to catch the majority of rule infractions that take place, sometimes an email in which no infraction occurred is held for review. Such an instance is termed a "false positive." A false positive occurs when our filtering program mistakenly interprets part of an email as an attempt by a member to circumvent the correspondence policy defined within our terms & conditions.

For instance, if a member attempts to list the ages of all his brothers and sisters in an email, and he has numerous siblings, our filtering program may interpret such an entry as an attempt by that member to place a telephone number within his email.

We have a human operator who checks each email that is held for review. For an email in which no infraction occurs (false positive), the email is promptly released intact in its original state. However, for those emails in which an infraction does occur, the offending content is removed, and only then is the email forwarded to the intended recipient.

During regular business hours, emails are usually held for review for no longer than one hour. If the email is sent during non-business hours (5:00 pm - 8:00 am EST, Monday through Friday, or all day Saturday and Sunday), it will be reviewed and released at the start of the next business day.

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Some of my emails have disappeared. Why?

Emails you sent or received more than 90 days ago are archived. In addition, if you make your profile inactive for a period of 30 days or more, all of your emails will be archived, regardless of how recently you sent or received them.

We suggest saving any emails that you wish to keep a record of. You can accomplish this by opening an email and clicking the "Save" link located within the upper right-hand corner of the email window. This function allows you to send a copy of the email to your personal email address so that you may copy it to your own computer.

On occasion, you may notice that only those emails to and from a particular lady have disappeared from your Inbox and Sent mail folders. This usually means the lady in question requested that her profile be removed from the website, indicating that she no longer wishes to participate. She may have removed her profile because she has entered into a relationship or because she has simply become too busy to continue using the service.

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How do I block a Lady?

If you no longer wish to receive emails from a lady, you may take advantage of the new block feature available with any paid membership. This feature allows you to block emails from specific users. To block a lady, simply open her email and click the link to "block" located above the text of the letter. After the lady has been added to your Block List, you will be prompted to remove all her emails from your inbox or keep them.

To view your blocked list, click the Black Book tab on the upper navigation bar when you are logged into your account and select "My Block List" in the drop-down menu called Show Me. The results will appear on the left hand panel. If you wish to unblock a user, simply open her profile and press the link "Click to Unblock" located in the Email Status field at the bottom of her profile information. If you have not previously deleted her emails, you can also unblock her if you re-open an email from her and click "Unblock" above the text of the email.

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My Account

I never received the confirmation email upon signing up. Why?

It's possible that you entered your email address incorrectly when initially signing up, or that the confirmation email was sent to your "spam" or "junk" folder. If, after checking your spam/junk folder, you are still unable to locate the confirmation email, please contact us.

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I forgot my username/password. Help!

To retrieve your username and/or password, click here.

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You emailed me my password but it still doesn't work. Why?

Your password is case sensitive. If it contains lowercase letters and you are attempting to enter them as uppercase, or vice versa, our login page will consider it invalid. If you are sure you are entering the password correctly, and it still does not work, please contact us.

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Your login page says my username doesn't exist. Why?

Please ensure that you are entering your username correctly. If you have forgotten your username and wish to retrieve it, click here.

If you are sure you are entering your username correctly, and our system still does not recognize it, please contact us.

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Your login page says I am "blocked" from the website. Why?

Due to the significant number of attempts at credit card fraud we have received from certain parts of the world, we have been forced to limit our exposure in those particular countries. We apologize for any inconvenience.

If you wish to use our services, yet, when you attempt to login, you receive an error message stating you have been "blocked" from the website, please contact us.

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How do I change my username or password?

While you cannot change your username, you can change your password by logging in and clicking "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "Edit Account" and proceed to change your password. When finished, click "Submit."

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "My Account"
  2. Click "Edit Account"
  3. Change Password
  4. Click "Submit"

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How do I edit my profile?

When logged in, click "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "View / Edit Profile" located in the navigation menu on the right-hand side of the screen. Then, click "Edit Profile." When finished editing your profile, click "Submit."

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "My Account"
  2. Click "View / Edit Profile"
  3. Click "Edit Profile"
  4. Edit Profile
  5. Click "Submit"

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How do I delete my profile?

When logged in, click "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "Edit Account" and select "Inactive." When finished, click "Submit."

When you make your profile inactive, it will no longer be displayed on the website. In addition, any emails you have sent in the past will no longer be displayed in the ladies' mailboxes. Should you decide to reactivate your profile within thirty days, your emails will return to the ladies' mailboxes.

Profiles that remain inactive for an extended period of time will be automatically deleted.

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "My Account"
  2. Click "Edit Account"
  3. Select "Inactive"
  4. Click "Submit"

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How do I add photos to my profile?

When logged in, click "My Account," located in the navigation bar at the bottom of your homepage. On the following page, click "View / Edit My Photos" located in the navigation menu on the right-hand side of the screen. Click "Browse" and select the picture you wish to upload, then click "Open." Lastly, click "Upload."

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "My Account"
  2. Click "View / Edit My Photos"
  3. Click "Browse"
  4. Select File to Upload
  5. Click "Open"
  6. Click "Upload"

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What are "Favorites," "Matches," and "Admirers?"

Favorites
You can express interest in a lady by adding her profile to your Favorites folder. To add a lady to your Favorites folder, click the heart icon located within her profile card. When you do so, she will receive a notification that she has a new Admirer (You!) and your profile will be listed in her Admirers folder each time she logs in.

Admirers
When you have an Admirer, it means that lady is interested in you and has added you to her Favorites folder. Likewise, when you add a lady to your Favorites folder, your profile will appear in her Admirers folder each time she logs in.

Matches
When a lady appears as one of your Matches, it means you have both placed the other's profile in your Favorites folder. You can add a lady to your Matches folder if her profile is currently displayed in your Admirers folder. This can be accomplished by clicking the heart icon located within her profile card.

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How do I send an email?

You can access our email messaging system from several areas of the web site, including your Mailbox and Black Book. The easiest and most direct way to email a lady is to click the email icon located within her profile card. Then, simply type the subject and body of your email and click "Send."

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How do I attach a picture to an email?

If you want to add an attachment to an email, check the "Add Attachment" box located in the upper right-hand corner of the email window before sending the message. After clicking send, you will be prompted to browse for the file you wish to attach.

Note: You must have at least one picture posted in your profile if you wish to use the attachment function. The add attachment option will not appear until after your profile picture has been approved and formatted.

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How do I send an instant message?

To see which ladies are currently online, click the flashing "Live Chat" button located within the navigation bar at the top of your homepage. When you see a lady with whom you would like to chat, click the green chat icon located within her profile card. The chat program will open via a popup window. To initiate a chat, simply type your message within the provided window and click "Send." The lady will receive a popup window alerting her that you would like to chat with her. She may then choose to accept or decline your chat invitation.

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "Live Chat"
  2. Click a lady's green chat icon
  3. Type your message and click "Send"

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How do I watch a video stream?

To see which ladies are currently online AND streaming video, click the flashing "Live Chat" button located within the navigation bar at the top of your homepage. If a lady's chat icon is flashing, it means she is currently streaming video. When you see a lady whose video stream you would like to view, click the flashing green chat icon located within her profile card.

The chat program will open via a popup window. To view the lady's video stream, click the green "Start Video" icon located within the upper right-hand corner of the chat window and then click "Accept." You can stop viewing the video stream by closing the chat window, or by clicking the red "Stop Video" icon.

Note: You can initiate a chat session with a lady who is streaming video regardless of whether or not you wish to view her video stream. To initiate a chat with a woman who is streaming video, but whose video stream you do not wish to watch, simply open a chat window by clicking her flashing green chat icon. When the chat window opens, initiate a chat as you normally would. As long as you do not click the "Start Video" icon, the lady's video stream will not open, nor will you be charged for viewing it. Likewise, you can view a lady's video stream even if you do not wish to chat with her. Simply open a chat window and click the "Start Video" icon within the chat window. When you are finished viewing, close the chat window.

Quick Steps from My Home:

  1. Click "Live Chat"
  2. Click a lady's flashing green chat icon
  3. Click "Start Video" and "Accept"

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How do I send a gift?

Watch our video tutorial on How to Send a Gift

To add a lady to your Gift List, click the giftbox icon located within her profile card. When viewing a lady in your Gift List, two frames will be displayed. The left frame contains your Gift Basket and Gifts Sent for that particular lady. The right frame contains our Gift Shop, from which you may purchase any of a number of gifts. To remove a lady from your Gift List, click "Delete From My Gifts," located in the upper portion of the left frame of your Gift List.

To purchase a gift, click the shopping cart icon beneath the gift's description, located in the right frame of the Gift List. Upon doing so, the gift will be displayed in your Gift Basket, located in the left frame of the Gift List. To remove an item from your Gift Basket, click the shopping cart icon, located in the "Remove" field of the Gift Basket. When you are ready to purchase the items in your Gift Basket, click "Continue Purchase."

On the following secure page, you will be required to enter your personal billing information. Once finished, click the "Purchase" button to complete your transaction. When you send a gift, it will be displayed in the "Gifts Sent" section of your Gift List for that lady. Please allow approximately 3-5 business days for gift delivery. In some instances, gift delivery may take longer to arrive. When your gift is delivered, you will receive a confirmation email.

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I have a question not listed here. Can it be answered through email?

Absolutely! Just email your question to info@hotrussianbrides.com.

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Meeting the Ladies

CAN I EXCHANGE PERSONAL CONTACT INFORMATION WITH THE LADIES?

In compliance with the "International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005" (IMBRA), members are prohibited from freely exchanging their personal contact information through our services.

However, we have implemented various protocols that will enable "Qualified Members" to exchange personal contact information and/or arrange an in-person meeting with a lady. Please click here for further details.

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What do I have to do to become a Qualified Member?

As defined by our Terms and Conditions, Qualified Members are those members who currently have a Silver, Gold, or Platinum membership and have also purchased a minimum of 2,500* credits throughout the duration of their membership. Please look under "Qualification Status" in "Your IMBRA Checklist" to see if you are qualified.

*Currently the credit requirement is 1,000 credits used.

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Why must I be qualified before I can meet a lady?

We could fill the next few paragraphs trying to convince you that we only permit qualified members to meet our ladies because we feel a substantial correspondence history between partners brings with it the comfort of knowing that both of you are truly serious in your search, or, that after compiling statistics obtained from the account balances of hundreds of members, we found that those who utilized at least 1,000 credits throughout the duration of their membership, enjoyed greater success in finding ladies with whom they felt a connection, and ultimately experienced greater success when the time came to finally meet their match in person.

While all of the above is true, the bottom line is that this is a business, and like any other, we must cover our costs and make a profit if we are to continue offering our members the same level of service they have come to appreciate and ultimately depend upon.

Often times, those men who feel they should not have to meet certain qualifications in order to meet a lady on our site, end up purchasing the contact information of several other ladies from one of our competitors. Regrettably, more often than not, that information proves to be invalid, or if it is valid, the few ladies that do respond do so by saying they require the help of the agency to continue corresponding. Other men take tours thinking that they can skip the correspondence altogether, travel to Russia, meet their future wife within the timeframe of a week, obtain a fiancée visa, and have her in the US within a matter of months. The likelihood of this happening is very slim, and if it does, the likelihood of a meaningful relationship developing from such a process is practically nonexistent.

We offer an online experience our competitors simply cannot match. Our women are beautiful, our services unique, and we provide you with the most efficient and interactive web-based tools in this industry. Ever heard the old adage "You get what you pay for?" Well, if you want to purchase contact information at $15 a pop only to keep wondering whether or not the ladies you are corresponding with are real, that's your choice. However, when you get tired of the runaround and want a service that enables you to instantly validate each lady with your very own eyes, provides you with contact management tools no one else does, and offers quite simply the best online correspondence experience available, we welcome you with open arms!

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I'm Qualified, how can I meet a lady I've been corresponding with?

Once you are a Qualified Member, please complete the IMBRA and intimacy request process as detailed here. From that point forward, our Travel Concierge will help you contact the local agency to arrange and coordinate an in-person meeting with the lady of your choice (with her consent of course).

Our Travel Concierge and the lady's local agency can both assist you with your travel accommodations, as well as any additional services you may require during your trip. Need a translator or driver, an apartment or hotel room, theater tickets or dinner reservations? The Travel Concierge can refer you to the local agencies, who will arrange all that for you, and more!

Examples of commonly requested services include: pick-up/drop-off at a local airport, arranged meetings with a lady, interpreters, ground transportation, and hotel or apartment accommodations. Even if you don't see what you need on this list, ask our Travel Concierge or the local agency about what you're looking for and it's likely they can help you to arrange it for your trip

For further details and/or to begin the referral process, please contact us.

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I'm qualified, what do I do next?

Once you have met the Qualification requirements set within our Terms of Use, you may complete our easy, automated process for fulfilling IMBRA procedures and obtaining direct contact with consenting ladies through our service. You will also need to complete this procedure if you wish to be referred to the lady's agency by our Travel Concierge in order to make meeting arrangements. Click here to watch a video tutorial on completing the IMBRA process.

  1. Click the IMBRA link at the bottom of the site to view your "IMBRA Checklist". Here you can find the procedural checklist, what the status of your paperwork is and what actions are still required to complete the IMBRA procedure.
  2. First, you will need to complete the Acknowledgement of Services form. In this document you simply acknowledge that you received the services you purchased from our website as agreed.
  3. After the Acknowledgement of Services form has been approved, you can complete the Client Attestation form required by IMBRA. This document asks basic background information which will be reviewed by the lady when you send her your Intimacy Request. At this time you will also need to pay the onetime $49 non-refundable Client Attestation processing fee.
  4. Once your Client Attestation form has been approved and your information has been checked against the National Sex Offender's registry, your IMBRA status will be set to "Approved" and you may begin sending Intimacy Requests!
  5. To send an Intimacy Request, click the appropriate link on the lady's profile card. When you send the Intimacy Request, 100 credits will be deducted from your account. If the lady accepts your request, direct contact will be established so that you may enjoy completely unfiltered chat and email correspondence. If the lady rejects your request or does not make a choice within 2 weeks, the 100 credits will be refunded to your account automatically.

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I'm traveling in a few days. Can you help me meet some ladies?

Due to the amount of time and resources required to satisfy the provisions set forth within the IMBRA, we ask that you please contact us at least one month prior to your planned departure date. Should any unforeseen delays occur while the ladies you are interested in are being contacted, enlisting our help well in advance of your departure date will ensure that your requests are fulfilled within ample time of your upcoming trip.

Please keep in mind that we also recommend you do NOT purchase your airline tickets until those ladies with whom you are interested in meeting have reviewed your Client Attestation Form and have completed their written release forms. While we have assisted some members who found themselves at the mercy of an unavoidable time constraint, more often than not, we are unable to make arrangements under such short notice. We thank you for your understanding and cooperation in this regard!

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